June 29th, 2022

Edelwize on Roe v. Wade…
The shock of suddenly losing the freedom to choose to have an abortion – for all the legitimate reasons that have been widely discussed on this platform over the past few days – has delivered a blow that goes deeper than any other blow against women’s rights in modern history, and in most developed countries in the world.

Being robbed of the choice to own the decision of what happens to our bodies, futures, and to the results of the seeds of our assailants or in life and death medical emergencies, triggered feelings ranging from sadness, anger, rage, devastation, fury, scorn, deep resentment, shock, terror, panic, powerlessness…and stocked a red-hot fire, that drives even the most mild-mannered women to battle. 🤬

The desperate need to force our personal values on others has led to this battle. How did we get here, and how do we stop this insanity, before we lose our right to marry who we love, who we have consensual intercourse with, or how we enjoy intimacy and our sexuality with the protection of contraceptives? 🤯

Are we ready to stop fighting over which side is the right and wrong side of the coin? 💔
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Have you noticed that every coin in the world has two different sides? That half of the people in the world have a slight or strong preference for heads over tails and the other half prefers the other side? That we’re here to know the difference of both sides, realize that while they’re interestingly different, they’re just two sides of what makes a coin whole? That it’s time to look at both sides, weed out the good, the bad, and combine the good from both sides into solutions that work for the majority? 😁

Since outrage and fear sells, the media has had a laser focus and spotlight on the 5% of far-out people on both political sides. The erroneous belief that everyone who belongs to either of the two parties thinks and feels in the same extreme way, has led to voting for candidates who represent these fringe extremist beliefs and ways of being. Listening to both sides, all I hear is how extreme the other side is, and both sides complain about and fear the end of their reign and the end of the world if they fail to win. 🙈

In reality, 90% of all people in our country secretly yearn for leaders who embrace and see the value of both sides. Both sides bring an interestingly different, and important aspect to the table. Both sides need to be considered. Both sides are equally worthy of being heard. Instead of fighting each other, we can aim for win-win situations that create synergy, allow us to negotiate equal exchange, and together we can create a third solution that is even better than what each side could have come up with on their own. 🌞🌛

The problem is: People have never learned how to use emotional intelligence to communicate and negotiate a win-win situations, have little energy left to learn the skill of creating the space to come up with third solutions, and investigate which of the candidates up for election – on all levels of the political field – are actually capable to act from this evolved state of being. 🤔

It's up to us - the 90% who represent the majority of our country - those who are willing to discover and invest in learning the skill set to negotiate win-win situations and create third solutions that everyone in the majority mindset can embrace and cooperate with. The majority of people agree that if you’re pro-choice you have the right to decide for your Self, and if you’re pro-life, you have the right to decide for your Self. The majority of people agrees that their personal values ARE personal values, and forcing our values or morals on others, will only create resistance, war, and blatant ignorance of the fact that there are always two sides of the coin, many ways of being interestingly different, and we have the capacity to cooperate and find new and evolved solutions that work for the majority of people. 🤩

Will we be more mindful as to who we’re voting for? Is it time to look for candidates who are evolved enough to consider the whole coin? Are YOU ready to learn the skill sets of how to negotiate equal exchange, how to establish third solutions, and how to communicate using both your heart and your mind? I’ll be happy to teach those who are ready how simple it is. 🤓

Remember: What you focus on grows. Railing against the machine gives more power to the machine...

Briefly look at what doesn’t work for you, and then put your WHOLE FOCUS on creating what actually would work in your life. This is the new Earth we’re creating! All the brown stuff is floating to the surface, all of our old systems are crashing down, and while this is a bit scary, it’s up to us to create new, evolved, up levelled systems, that create a blissful existence for the majority of people on this exciting planet. We needed the overturning of Roe v. Wade to wake us up! I’m so excited for all the positive changes that will come from and out of this tragic moment in our lives. 💔

Who does this resonate with? 🌎✨